| Your Personality is Very Rare (INFP) |
 Your personality type is dreamy, romantic, elegant, and expressive. Only about 5% of all people have your personality, including 6% of all women and 4% of all men You are Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Perceiving. |
Sunday, January 20, 2008
Im A rArEiTy!!!!!
HaNdWriTiNg TeLlS u AlL!!!
| What Your Handwriting Says About You |
 You are a fairly energetic person. You know how do pace yourself, and you deal well with stress. You are somewhat outgoing, but you're not a natural extrovert. You think first before you act. You tend to be independent, rational, and logical. You are balanced and grounded. You know how to get along well with others. You need a bit of space in your life, but you're not a recluse. You expect people to give you a small amount of privacy, and you respect their privacy as well. You are somewhat traditional, but you are also open to change. You listen to your head and your heart. You are a good communicator. You work hard to get your ideas across effectively. |
WaTeVEr!!!!!
| You Belong in 1973 |
 Bold and brash, you take life by the horns. Whether you're partying or protesting, you give it your all! |
SoUnDs A lOt LiKe mOi!!!! :)
| You Are a Phoenix |
 Driven and ambitious, you tend to acquire material success easily. You have grand schemes - both for your own life and for changing the whole world. You are a great leader, and you have no problem taking the reigns. However, you aren't all business. You also have great talents for performing and visual arts. |
HoW CluTtErEd My MiNd Is...HmMmM....:)
| Your Mind is 55% Cluttered |
 Your mind is starting to get cluttered, and as a result, it's a little harder for you to keep focused. Try to let go of your pettiest worries and concerns. The worrying is worse than the actual problems! |
Saturday, January 19, 2008
My EQ ReSuLtS!!
| Your EQ is 127 |
 You usually have it going on emotionally, but roadblocks tend to land you on your butt. On an average day, you're quite happy, together, and content. You live your life well. Your emotions aren't always stable, but you can go along with the ups and downs pretty well. You tend to be motivated, energetic, focused, and level headed. You see the world pretty rationally, and you don't tend to over dramatize things. When things are bad, you know they eventually have to get better. |
Wednesday, January 2, 2008
The frst Speed Breaker
Things were going pretty smooth for Seher and Asmita..of course they had arguments and fites, didnt talk for a few days...but nothing out of the ordinary or something that Asmita could not have compromised with. Now for d frst speed breaker in their relationship that was the topic of their frends more than many times...
Through her college, Asmita joined a youth organisation, without actually bothering to find out what kind of reputation the organisation had in the society...she was afterall in her first year of college and eager to take up all available opportunities to develop her interpersonal skills, which were a pre-requisite to her chosen career. The organisation was open to members from both the male and female gender and all of them were young so she instantly liked the atmosphere and all the fun they were having together, before the actual workload began.
All the time she now spent in the company of these youngsters...guys in particular, was having a weird effect on her relationship with Seher. She was now exposed to this fiercely possessive side of him, where he could not tolerate her being in the company of not jus one new guy, but a whole group of guys, in the name of an "organisation"! He fought with her one evening becoz when she answered his call, he cud hear a few male voices in the background(!!!) Such was the stupidity of their arguments. But she somehow kept things going by not talkin much abt wat she did today at the meeting etc, even though she missed being able to tell him about her day's activities. She knew that she d be treading on thin ice if she so much as even mentioned the organisation's name.
She found it extremely irritating and agonising, the amount of restrictions he was placing on her from constantly hinting to her that he wanted her to quit the organisation. But she decided that she liked the place and that she wouldn't give in to his possessiveness and (dumb) idea that girls and guys cannot have something called FREINDSHIP between them. She used to wonder at how anyone could be so old skool in their thoughts and still be in this century...then it dawned on her that his reactions...sorry over reactions were probably the outcome of his Islamic bringing up, where girls from"good families" didnt mingle(read: flirt) with guys and call it friendship!!!
She didnt know who to blame...he was so steadfast in his beliefs about how a woman he was planning to make "HIS" should behave, completely ignoring the fact that the woman was an individual with her own likes and dislikes and of course, her own brains!! She was from a more liberal background where her parents encouraged her outgoing nature and were even PROUD of it!!! She wasnt able to comprehend why her mere being in the midst of men other than him, her father and her brothers, was leading to so much havoc in her relationship.
Then one day the time came for her to go out of Chennai as part of the organisation for a seminar on wat the organisation was all about etc etc...it was compulsory for all new members (including her, of course!!) to attend the seminar. Before such time came, they had had a proper talk and she had kind of convinced him to see the insanity of their fites. So wen she told him abt the trip, he made a concious effort to let her decide her life and didnt make a fuss abt it! He even came and met her on the eve of her trip after she had finished all her last minute shopping and offered to pick her up in the morning and drop her in the station!! She was really surprised and the gesture confirmed the fact that both of them loved each other beyond their huge differences!!
That evening before her trip, he actually walked with her on the streets of Besant Nagar(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) carrying her shopping load and telling her to be careful and that he d call her without fail everyday and that he would miss her terribly and that she should not do anythn stupid in the company of people who she had jus met...etc...etc...and that he loved her more than anythn in his life!! The next day morning he came on time(a rare occurrence!!!!) and waited till the train arrived, all in PUBLIC GLARE, where he could have been easily spotted!!!! HE even spoke to one of her friends askin her to take care of Asmita and that she was to call him if at all anythn went wrong!!!( He never spoke to any of her friends except for Ms.Goody)
Throughout the trip he spent unusual hours on the fone with her, always worrying about wat exactly she was doing there and if any guy had made any advances on her and the like...and she patiently assured him that there were far more prettier gurls for the guys to go prey upon and that they left her alone!!! She stuck to her end of the deal too...she didnt flirt with any guy and didnt do anythng stupid in front of them and always dressed decently.
Then she came back...and life was normal for a few days...then once again problems began(!!!!) when she had jus thought that everythng was settled forever. His vehement opposition to her beiong part of that place was based on what his friends had told him. He learned from them that in future "meetings and seminars and conferences" there would be booze, drugs and even sex!!! This completely freaked him out and he wanted her out IMMEDIATELY before things went anymore out of control!! She who didnt know that whatever he had heard was actually, in a way, rite, rebelled and that lead to fites all over again and finally without any other option she quit the organisation, though she at that point in time didnt apprecaite his utter domination of her life...though in this particular case, it was actually for he own good.
More to come!!!
Till the Blah..Blah..Blah...:)
Through her college, Asmita joined a youth organisation, without actually bothering to find out what kind of reputation the organisation had in the society...she was afterall in her first year of college and eager to take up all available opportunities to develop her interpersonal skills, which were a pre-requisite to her chosen career. The organisation was open to members from both the male and female gender and all of them were young so she instantly liked the atmosphere and all the fun they were having together, before the actual workload began.
All the time she now spent in the company of these youngsters...guys in particular, was having a weird effect on her relationship with Seher. She was now exposed to this fiercely possessive side of him, where he could not tolerate her being in the company of not jus one new guy, but a whole group of guys, in the name of an "organisation"! He fought with her one evening becoz when she answered his call, he cud hear a few male voices in the background(!!!) Such was the stupidity of their arguments. But she somehow kept things going by not talkin much abt wat she did today at the meeting etc, even though she missed being able to tell him about her day's activities. She knew that she d be treading on thin ice if she so much as even mentioned the organisation's name.
She found it extremely irritating and agonising, the amount of restrictions he was placing on her from constantly hinting to her that he wanted her to quit the organisation. But she decided that she liked the place and that she wouldn't give in to his possessiveness and (dumb) idea that girls and guys cannot have something called FREINDSHIP between them. She used to wonder at how anyone could be so old skool in their thoughts and still be in this century...then it dawned on her that his reactions...sorry over reactions were probably the outcome of his Islamic bringing up, where girls from"good families" didnt mingle(read: flirt) with guys and call it friendship!!!
She didnt know who to blame...he was so steadfast in his beliefs about how a woman he was planning to make "HIS" should behave, completely ignoring the fact that the woman was an individual with her own likes and dislikes and of course, her own brains!! She was from a more liberal background where her parents encouraged her outgoing nature and were even PROUD of it!!! She wasnt able to comprehend why her mere being in the midst of men other than him, her father and her brothers, was leading to so much havoc in her relationship.
Then one day the time came for her to go out of Chennai as part of the organisation for a seminar on wat the organisation was all about etc etc...it was compulsory for all new members (including her, of course!!) to attend the seminar. Before such time came, they had had a proper talk and she had kind of convinced him to see the insanity of their fites. So wen she told him abt the trip, he made a concious effort to let her decide her life and didnt make a fuss abt it! He even came and met her on the eve of her trip after she had finished all her last minute shopping and offered to pick her up in the morning and drop her in the station!! She was really surprised and the gesture confirmed the fact that both of them loved each other beyond their huge differences!!
That evening before her trip, he actually walked with her on the streets of Besant Nagar(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) carrying her shopping load and telling her to be careful and that he d call her without fail everyday and that he would miss her terribly and that she should not do anythn stupid in the company of people who she had jus met...etc...etc...and that he loved her more than anythn in his life!! The next day morning he came on time(a rare occurrence!!!!) and waited till the train arrived, all in PUBLIC GLARE, where he could have been easily spotted!!!! HE even spoke to one of her friends askin her to take care of Asmita and that she was to call him if at all anythn went wrong!!!( He never spoke to any of her friends except for Ms.Goody)
Throughout the trip he spent unusual hours on the fone with her, always worrying about wat exactly she was doing there and if any guy had made any advances on her and the like...and she patiently assured him that there were far more prettier gurls for the guys to go prey upon and that they left her alone!!! She stuck to her end of the deal too...she didnt flirt with any guy and didnt do anythng stupid in front of them and always dressed decently.
Then she came back...and life was normal for a few days...then once again problems began(!!!!) when she had jus thought that everythng was settled forever. His vehement opposition to her beiong part of that place was based on what his friends had told him. He learned from them that in future "meetings and seminars and conferences" there would be booze, drugs and even sex!!! This completely freaked him out and he wanted her out IMMEDIATELY before things went anymore out of control!! She who didnt know that whatever he had heard was actually, in a way, rite, rebelled and that lead to fites all over again and finally without any other option she quit the organisation, though she at that point in time didnt apprecaite his utter domination of her life...though in this particular case, it was actually for he own good.
More to come!!!
Till the Blah..Blah..Blah...:)
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
Shoppin fr d frst time!!
The first time he took her shopping deserves a seperate post!! So here goes...
Seher called Asmita one nite and asked if she would be able to bunk college the next day. The question intrigued and confused her at the same time...she wondered what was cookin coz she unlike the other girls in her class never bunked college to go datin with their guys...why?? Becoz her guy, was never awake (as we all know) for anythn as "momentous" like bunkin classes to happen!! So she asked him if he was alright...but all she got in reply was "of course I am...nyways am runnin late will call u soon..blah..blah..blah..."
She was so excited at the prospect of spending time with him in broad daylight after wat seemed like ages!! The urge to call someone...anyone who'd listen...and boast abt her plans for tomorro was real high but she pushed it down...she had this longstanding idea/belief/sentiment that if she spoke too much of her plans to anyone or even to herself they always flopped. So trying not to wonder wat all they could do tomorro she forced herself to sleep.
The next day morning he came and picked her from near her college and off they went. When he refused to answer or respond to any of her questions or suggestions and wen she realised that they were only gonna go on yet another long drive, she felt a kind of strange disappointment. She told herself that she shud stop even wonderin as little as she did yesterday nite!! But wait!!!!! They were takin a different route that morning...and that cheered her up a little...something was better than nuthn afterall!!!
They were headed towards the airport...she didnt wonder why...they turned into the terminal....she cut short her mind's questions...they got out and started walkin inside...now she really couldnt keep her mind down...so she asked, "Hmmm...Seher, where are v goin?" and he tell her, " Jus walk a few steps behind me and dnt talk to me. We cant afford getting caught!". Now she didnt know wat to think of their "date"!!! But she did as she was told and walked a few steps behind him without talkin to him. Then she had a brainwave (:D) and sent him an SMS askin what the hell was happening...and wat did he do??? IGNORE it and walk on..like she hadnt sent him anythn!
She was now totally pissed off and hugely confused, so she shut up and walked stiffly behind him rite thru the checking counters and out into the tarmac, where a queue was waiting to board the a flight. (I must mention here that Asmita has never been on a plane before and hence did not know wat exactly happened within an airport..as in the various checkin procedures etc etc..). Only when they too joined the queue and started moving towards d plane did she start to panic...(he was makin a habbit out of getting her scared!!) She desperately sent him another msg to which she got no reply and they were now climbing into the flight!!!
When the air hostess welcomed her sayin,"Have a pleasant flight, ma'am", she gave her a bewildered look and murmured somethin incomprehensible and rushed forward behind Seher!! Her face, she thought, must be red with embarrassment for she felt nothing other than that at the way she had stared like a lost chicken at the air hostess who had given her an assuring smile, which maybe...jus a teeny weeny bit...bordered on condescending!!! And now she caught his sleeve and demanded pretty loudly what (d hell) was happening and she jus got started all the way down into her seat!!!
He sat next to her and told her that they were on board the flight to meet the pilot, his very close frend...and she didnt buy a word of that story he was tellin her...in all their time together he had never shown much interest in letting her meet his frends or relatives...and this seemed a very wierd way to meet a frend!! But all the same she kept quiet and announcements askin the passengers to put their seat belts were being aired. She looked at him accusingly and he only smiled and looked more innocent than ever...all the more reason for her to suspect his intentions(!!!!!)
Where they were actually headed was Bangalore!!! He had for long felt bad that he wasnt giving her a normal love life...and felt bad at the way she almost wistfully described how her frends were roaming the city, doin this and that....he hadnt even taken her to a movie..and she had till date never complained abt anythng to him...she seemed to be perfectly happy to jus be with him even though it lasted only for a couple of hours locked within a transparent car! So he had sat last nite and planned the entire idea of takin her upto bangalore, where not many knew him....roaming the roads with her...takin her shopping, to all the places that they cud ve never bin to in Chennai, like a coffee pub or a mall or a theatre!!
So wen he told her abt his plan (they were in the sky now:]) all she could say was..."I love u...". They landed there in Bangalore after 45 mins and went all over the city to places so normal to others but so special to jus the two of them!!!! He bought her everythn that she even stood to simply check out!!! Took her for a movie, ate along with her in roadside chaat shops, went to Barista her favourite coffee pub...and many other shopping streets that were famous in the city..the fear of being caught or spotted was absent in both of them and it was a truly liberating exprience for both of them...a day they will never be able to forget all their lives...
More to come..keep visitin!!!
Till then...blah...blah...blah....:)
Seher called Asmita one nite and asked if she would be able to bunk college the next day. The question intrigued and confused her at the same time...she wondered what was cookin coz she unlike the other girls in her class never bunked college to go datin with their guys...why?? Becoz her guy, was never awake (as we all know) for anythn as "momentous" like bunkin classes to happen!! So she asked him if he was alright...but all she got in reply was "of course I am...nyways am runnin late will call u soon..blah..blah..blah..."
She was so excited at the prospect of spending time with him in broad daylight after wat seemed like ages!! The urge to call someone...anyone who'd listen...and boast abt her plans for tomorro was real high but she pushed it down...she had this longstanding idea/belief/sentiment that if she spoke too much of her plans to anyone or even to herself they always flopped. So trying not to wonder wat all they could do tomorro she forced herself to sleep.
The next day morning he came and picked her from near her college and off they went. When he refused to answer or respond to any of her questions or suggestions and wen she realised that they were only gonna go on yet another long drive, she felt a kind of strange disappointment. She told herself that she shud stop even wonderin as little as she did yesterday nite!! But wait!!!!! They were takin a different route that morning...and that cheered her up a little...something was better than nuthn afterall!!!
They were headed towards the airport...she didnt wonder why...they turned into the terminal....she cut short her mind's questions...they got out and started walkin inside...now she really couldnt keep her mind down...so she asked, "Hmmm...Seher, where are v goin?" and he tell her, " Jus walk a few steps behind me and dnt talk to me. We cant afford getting caught!". Now she didnt know wat to think of their "date"!!! But she did as she was told and walked a few steps behind him without talkin to him. Then she had a brainwave (:D) and sent him an SMS askin what the hell was happening...and wat did he do??? IGNORE it and walk on..like she hadnt sent him anythn!
She was now totally pissed off and hugely confused, so she shut up and walked stiffly behind him rite thru the checking counters and out into the tarmac, where a queue was waiting to board the a flight. (I must mention here that Asmita has never been on a plane before and hence did not know wat exactly happened within an airport..as in the various checkin procedures etc etc..). Only when they too joined the queue and started moving towards d plane did she start to panic...(he was makin a habbit out of getting her scared!!) She desperately sent him another msg to which she got no reply and they were now climbing into the flight!!!
When the air hostess welcomed her sayin,"Have a pleasant flight, ma'am", she gave her a bewildered look and murmured somethin incomprehensible and rushed forward behind Seher!! Her face, she thought, must be red with embarrassment for she felt nothing other than that at the way she had stared like a lost chicken at the air hostess who had given her an assuring smile, which maybe...jus a teeny weeny bit...bordered on condescending!!! And now she caught his sleeve and demanded pretty loudly what (d hell) was happening and she jus got started all the way down into her seat!!!
He sat next to her and told her that they were on board the flight to meet the pilot, his very close frend...and she didnt buy a word of that story he was tellin her...in all their time together he had never shown much interest in letting her meet his frends or relatives...and this seemed a very wierd way to meet a frend!! But all the same she kept quiet and announcements askin the passengers to put their seat belts were being aired. She looked at him accusingly and he only smiled and looked more innocent than ever...all the more reason for her to suspect his intentions(!!!!!)
Where they were actually headed was Bangalore!!! He had for long felt bad that he wasnt giving her a normal love life...and felt bad at the way she almost wistfully described how her frends were roaming the city, doin this and that....he hadnt even taken her to a movie..and she had till date never complained abt anythng to him...she seemed to be perfectly happy to jus be with him even though it lasted only for a couple of hours locked within a transparent car! So he had sat last nite and planned the entire idea of takin her upto bangalore, where not many knew him....roaming the roads with her...takin her shopping, to all the places that they cud ve never bin to in Chennai, like a coffee pub or a mall or a theatre!!
So wen he told her abt his plan (they were in the sky now:]) all she could say was..."I love u...". They landed there in Bangalore after 45 mins and went all over the city to places so normal to others but so special to jus the two of them!!!! He bought her everythn that she even stood to simply check out!!! Took her for a movie, ate along with her in roadside chaat shops, went to Barista her favourite coffee pub...and many other shopping streets that were famous in the city..the fear of being caught or spotted was absent in both of them and it was a truly liberating exprience for both of them...a day they will never be able to forget all their lives...
More to come..keep visitin!!!
Till then...blah...blah...blah....:)
Hey ppl...to who ever has been readin my posts, i have a couple of clarifications to make...
in my story, "Ms.Goody" is the friend of the heroine
and the story isnt completely fictitious also...
i shall henceforth call my story's hero and heroine Seher and Asmita respectively (of course :P)
any inconvinience in reading my blogs so far is regretted:( [!!!!!]
thank u for reading nd do keep readin though im quite lazy wen it cms dwn to posting on ma blog :D
ArUnA.V.IyEr :)
in my story, "Ms.Goody" is the friend of the heroine
and the story isnt completely fictitious also...
i shall henceforth call my story's hero and heroine Seher and Asmita respectively (of course :P)
any inconvinience in reading my blogs so far is regretted:( [!!!!!]
thank u for reading nd do keep readin though im quite lazy wen it cms dwn to posting on ma blog :D
ArUnA.V.IyEr :)
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
